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The Lies That Sell: Why “They Don’t Care” Feels True—But Isn’t
Okay, let’s talk about it. We can’t avoid it. The entire reason I decided to start this blog. You’ve seen the videos, read the books. You’ve been told that avoidants are manipulators, liars, users, abusers, assholes. You’ve been warned to… Continue reading
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Avoidant Hell and How I Landed Here
An introduction is order. Officially. Who I am and how I got here. If you’re returning, I’m sure you’re wondering why I’m only now introducing myself. It’s actually simpler than you might think. I matter less than the content of… Continue reading
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The Nuance that Relationship Coaches Leave Unspoken
We’ve all seen the videos—“The Ten Things An Avoidant Would Never Tell You” or “The 3 Magic Phrases That Bring the Avoidant Back to Your Yard” or “How Your Avoidant is Lying to You.” You’ll find a lot of certainty… Continue reading
Romancing the Fox 